Fresh Perspective

I'm writing this as it's pelting down with rain, thundering and lightning. This can be scary in itself, and so can life. Life works in mysterious ways.




There was a time when people left my life, either they passed away, or they decided that my time in their life had finished, reason, season and lifetime.

I know I have brought this up a lot of late, but it is something I feel very passionate about and while I grieved the people that chose to walk out of my life, I had no control of them walking out and that was the thing that 'killed' me at the time.  Maybe I had a clue that my time with them was going to be limited.

I've been told many times to 'live in the real world'. I won't give you a 'pity party' here, living in the real world, as I am sure all of you will relate, can suck, can suck big time, people suck, things suck.

People change
Things go wrong
Just remember, the ride goes on.

I have no control of those that are now living their life separately to mine, but it's a grieving process.

Grief comes in many forms, I'm currently grieving my two grandparents that passed away (albeit ten years apart) but within two weeks of each other this month. That's one loss and the other loss is losing 'friends' or people masquerading as friends. People, who when you say or do the wrong thing at the first point, they decide enough is enough.... SO IF THEY AREN'T GIVING IT A SECOND THOUGHT, EITHER AM I.